Recovery Update

Two and a half weeks post op and I feel worse than I did when I wrote my last post a week after surgery. They always say recovery is a rollercoaster and it certainly has its ups and downs. This week I've been struggling with intense cramps that make me just want to curl up in a ball, and pounding headaches that make me want to bury my head under a pillow. Its been particularly frustrating seeing as my physical wounds are healing very well and I'm now able to walk around normally, rather than being scared that the slightest wrong movement could reopen an incision. That said I have managed to venture out for an hour here and there to catch up with family and friends to stop myself from going completely mad from cabin fever. Although laying under a blanket, with the cats, watching Christmas films by the Christmas tree lights hasn't been too much of a hardship with how I've been feeling.

I know I'm still healing after major surgery but its hard not to worry that the pain I'm experiencing is just part of my normal Endo and Adeno pain. That of course would suggest the op hasn't made any difference. I know I shouldn't think that way but sometimes its hard to remain positive, especially when it could be a real possibility. Some days its hard to accept that this is how life is always going to be. Thats the reality of living with an incurable disease. You start to wonder how many more surgeries you'll have to go through, and how much time you'll end up spending on the sofa rather than doing the things you want. Its just part of the ongoing battle we have with ourselves, not only physically but mentally too.

To add to the above, my social media has been filled with peoples babies and children in the run up to Christmas. Bumps, new arrivals or just quality family time. Most days I don't bat an eyelid at it, but it seems to be hitting home a little harder in the last few days. I'm going to blame the hormones obviously, but its hard, ya know. Some days it just gets you. And thats okay. It'll pass, it always does...

ANYWAY, thats enough from me, just a quick update on recovery progress. I hope you're all enjoying the festivities and looking forward to Christmas. Speak soon.

A x


Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Womb-less

Image
Well, here we are 3.5 weeks post "the big op". 3.5 weeks since I lost a part of me. 3.5 weeks since my world changed. But most importantly, 3.5 weeks since my journey to living again started. The day itself came round very quickly. The months notice I had went by in a flash, and before I knew it, I was laying in the hospital. I started my op prep a couple of days before the big day, it was as unpleasant as I had expected. The bowel prep was certainly more aggressive this time, lasting right up until 10 mins before I went down for surgery and it's safe to say I felt utterly rotten. I felt so sick the morning of the op. I was sitting on my bathroom floor next to the toilet thinking oh my goodness, I can't go, I can't leave this bathroom let alone the house. Sheer panic had a hold of me and my anxiety had me sat frozen, pleading with myself to move. It was the toughest battle I've ever had with my own brain before an operation and between you and me, I truly didn...
Read more

Whats worse...

Image
Whats worse than a stressful day at work? A stressful day at work with a nasty endo flare up. Whats worse than a stressful day at work with a nasty endo flare up? A stressful day at work with a nasty endo flare up and coming home to clear up cat sick on your bedroom floor. Whats worse than a stressful day at work with a nasty endo flare up and coming home to clear up cat sick on your bedroom floor? All of the above plus standing in some cat sick you didn't see!!!! And whats even worse than all of the above? Not being able to come home and enjoy a gin and tonic to help the above because it'll make your pain even worse!! My pain levels are through the roof today. It was bad yesterday but my goodness I am struggling right now. The constant heavy, burning tummy ache is making it hard to walk. Everything takes effort and I'm running on the last fumes in my energy tank. I was awake at 4am this morning which is typical for when I'm having a flare. I also have to wee a ...
Read more

I'm coming home...

Image
I’ve been tossing up for a while now whether to write another blog post. It’s been a couple of months since my last update and I’ve neglected my blog since. The truth of it is I’ve used the last three months in Australia to run away from the reality of my situation. I’ve been able to (for the most part) shut off my thinking about the appointments, procedures and operations that are to come in the next couple of years. And it’s been bliss. Yes I’ve had my bad days. And yes at times it’s been a struggle. But I've also been able to just be me, without the endometriosis, without the adenomyosis, and without the heartache that it all brings with it. Having a break from the frequent hospital appointments, the feelings of jealousy and resentment, and the enormity of whats to come was needed. I’ve felt a bit like the old Amy, the Amy who had a life outside of endometriosis, the Amy before everything changed. It’s funny how when you go somewhere different you can change your mindset. It wa...
Read more